Introduction to my blog…

  I am a non conforming, INFJ {my personality} submissive {In play} laby in my 40’s. I am a deep thinker {The INFJ} Very honest, sometimes too honest, but not in a  ‘Yes you look fat in that’  way. I am a stickler for manners, respect, integrity. Psychology interests me, I love being spanked for pleasure,…

Moving onto the next phase of my spanking life…

I am leaving the spanking scene for good… I have copied & pasted from my private blog. Some parts are quite random. As per usual… Here goes… My Woman In Black… I’m so nasty, blogging nasty things about A. Its not her fault she needs sooo much attention & gets a visit from the black…

The life of a bored spankee…

{Rolls my eyes} I chatted to B yesterday. I thought I should, as we’re friends & we’re playing on Feb 13th. He wants to talk about spanking. Obviously it is his favourite subject. Sooo I steered the conversation away to cowboy hats. He wanted to talk about his strop…Whatever! I do like strops. Great big…

Just go with the flow they said…

Psychology – Sooo many questions… I am a sub, I am a spankee, but only in play, I can’t give anyone that much power over me… I can’t just be ‘A submissive’ My vanilla life comes first… I get the feeling lots of scene people put their scene life first, in fact that is ‘Them!’……

I wear my out…

Psychology – The thing is… S was just for one thing… I was just for one thing… I feel better now. I felt depressed earlier. I had a long nap. I think I was exhausted from lack of sleep. I saw my beautiful little granddaughter as well, how can you be depressed when you look…

Am I a narcissist? Maybe I am…

Ohhh! The Trials Of Being A INFJ! {Not Literally A Trial………….} No no one has ever accused me of being a narcissist… One thing I notice about most people. They listen to respond, not listen to understand, the same goes for ‘reading to respond’ not reading to understand. Its like they think you are writing…

In my inbox. A message from boob man…

I tend to go more with my gut instincts these days…So when I get a message on Fetlife or British Spanking. I take a look at his profile. It is usually 10% spanking 90% anything other then spanking, usually which I am not into. So do I give this Dom man a chance, based on…

Mean while deep in the forest…

I was trying to rewrite my profile in Bs [Aka british spanking} but I don’t know what to write, to get across what I am looking for & I run out of space doing my interests. That is where Fetlife is easier. Not that most blokes bother to read a woman’s profile or interests. Its…